Look, I don't know where the other guys got their music from, but this is the way Dave plays it.
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Chorus:
D Bm ?
E--2------2-------3--------| This is just repeated
B--3------3-------3--------|
G--2------4-------0--------|
D--0------4-------0--------|
A--0------0-------2--------|
E--0------0-------3--------|
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D Bm
The space between these tears we cry
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Is the laughter that keeps us comminng back for more
D Bm
The space between these wicked lies we tell
CCC Em (back to the verses)
and hope to keep safe from the pain
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Verses:
the verses get strummed like this before each line:
CCC Em
You cannot quit me so quickly
CCC Em
There's no hope in you for me
CCC Em
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you get the point, anyway, at least you'll be able to play it correctly